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All My Friends Are Getting Married, and I’m Eating a Grilled Cheese.

Last weekend, two-thirds of the Life in Labels crew took planes, trains, and automobiles to make it to Cleveland for the wedding of our dear friend Lizzie and her wonderful now-husband Lance.

Along the way, we also casually stopped off in Norfolk (Denise) and Richmond (Emily) to be a bridesmaid and attend a bachelorette party, respectively.

Denise is pretty!

Denise is pretty!

Not that we over-schedule our lives or have insane social calendars or anything…

By Sunday evening, we were both exhausted. We found ourselves in a giant fluffy bed with two giant pieces of leftover wedding cake (props to Lizzie and Lance for picking such a delicious pastry!), wallowing in our pajamas, binge watching Arrested Development, and ordering one insanely overpriced (yet completely worth it) grilled cheese sandwich and fries from room service… before sleeping for about 12 hours.

bed, sandwich, pjs, bff.

bed, sandwich, pjs, bff.

And that’s why one day we will co-author a book after the following list, All My Friends Are Getting Married, and I’m Eating a Grilled Cheese Sandwich: How to Find Love and Happiness When The Rest of Your Friends Already Have It All in the 21st Century:

1. Small propeller planes give you the opportunity to have intimate conversations with potential suitors on board. They also provide a lot of white-noise covered time to reflect deeply on your prospects and life thus far.

YOLO.

YOLO.

2. Practice responsibility… with everyone ELSE’S children.

babies + hazardous objects? no problem!

babies + hazardous objects? no problem!

3. Surround yourself with eligible men.

just ignore the Dominican attire....

just ignore the Dominican attire….

4. Remember that your best girlfriends are still willing to ditch their dates/fiances/husbands for a few songs to dance with you, especially if it involves Icona Pop’s anthem “I Don’t Care/I Love It

wedding table of champions/dance party of macarena masters

wedding table of champions/dance party of macarena masters

5. Remember that even your almost-married friends are still surprised by marriage.

I'm getting married?

I’m getting married?

6. Bachelorette parties are a great time to demand free drinks for yourself on behalf of the bride-to-be!

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7. Married friends still have fun. Sometimes.

sooo Lambeth right now

sooo Lambeth right now

8. CAKE IS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS.

cakeeeeeee

cakeeeeeee

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cake cake cake cake cakeee

9. At least all our friends aren’t dead. They’re just married.

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(all my friends are dead via NoMoreFriends)

Mountain Climber etc.*

This past weekend, Boyfriend* took me to Charlottesville for a belated birthday celebration. We kicked off the trip with some Bodo’s and then set off for Humpback Rock. He had never climbed it before, and I hadn’t done so since three years ago (exactly three to the weekend, might I add) when I decided to knock a dozen things off my fourth year graduation bucket list in one weekend (and also consumed a poisonous flower while riding a short bus home from my sorority formal, but that’s neither on the list or really of importance anymore, I suppose).

And so, we found ourselves atop Humpback right about noon with no less than 40 other people who had the brilliant idea to do the same with their 70-degrees-and-sunny-Saturday.

I'm a stickler for the rulel of thirds

I’m a stickler for the rule of thirds

Two minutes after this photo was taken, a fellow hiker concluded that “Once you’ve seen one mountain, you’ve seen them all” and pretty much ruined the mood for everyone else and then Boyfriend drop-kicked him off a mountain, duh.

So there you have it, I’m a mountain climber. And a Girlfriend.*

*Hey world, I have a Boyfriend. I am a Girlfriend. It took me approximately 372 days to call him that, but I suppose that counts. Also, maybe I’m slightly terrified of commitment and titles and really anything that feels like adult life. So let’s just say I’m a Mountain Climber instead. Because you know what? I’m NOT afraid of heights.

Not that old, but not that young.

by Denise and Emily

We tend to have running emails back and forth during the work week, and yesterday was no exception. However, the email chain and chats proved to much more entertaining than usual, and most definitely worthy of sharing on Life in Labels.

Denise: Tell me a story. Blerg, in a mood.

Emily: Well, I don’t really have a good story… but I have another underwear story, like the time I told you about dropping my underwear on 7th street… except this time, I went to pull my sunglasses out of my work bag and they brought a forgotten pair of spare underwear with them onto 13th street near Metro Center…. I think I just have bad undergarment luck. Another funny thing to read right now is the Bachelor Pad recap from last night, which includes this brilliant quote: “Just because we’re not emotional alcoholics who run around here hammered, crying about our feelings… doesn’t mean we don’t want this more than anybody.”

Emily: (5 minutes later) Here is a story via gchat about how we are not married, haha:

Lauren:  your table [at my wedding this weekend] is going to be so freaking fun… so don’t be surprised if you find me trying to sneak over there often

Me:  hahahahaha… are you allowed to tell me who it is? (although i can probably hazard a guess)
 
Lauren:  hahaha, I can tell you. I just submitted the final seating arrangement to the woman doing the escort card templates, so there’s no going back now!
 
Me:  ahhh it’s so real!!!
 
Lauren:  it’s you, Denise, Declan & Becca, Emily & John, Nick & Emily, and Katie and her fiance
 
Me:  hahaha Denise and I are dates.
 
Lauren:  hahaha, I guess it did work out that way
 

Denise: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I JUST LOL’D and I don’t care which gov employees heard me.That. Is. Great.Well, at least Declan isn’t married, but still. Can we change our class rings to our left hands and pretend our husbands are in the military…or astronauts? But seriously, we’re 24. How is it that we’ve already reached the point of feeling  like Bridget Jones. This is unacceptable. I blame the world.

Emily: I blame your Catholic friends.

Denise: Yeah, me too.

Emily: Well at least my mom is DD’ing us like the children that we are, so we can drink our feelings. HAHA.
 

From: Denise
To: Emily, Lauren, Nick, Declan
Subject: Fwd: Re: Tell me a story
Message: Had to forward this. Too funny. Plus, we all obviously need to prep for the epic-ness that will be this weekend. We’re officially sitting at the cool kids table. Score. Also, to make it easier on everyone, Emily and I will each pretend to have astronaut husbands.

Emily: (Replying all) Thank you, Denise. I’m so glad that you included our earlier chain about my undergarments for everyone’s reading pleasure as well.

Denise: (Replying all) Oh yeah, you know. Thought it would add some context. But seriously, I’m sorry. And laughing. But mostly sorry.

Lauren: (Replying all) I’m not sorry.  At all.

Young Adults

Today marks the Two-Year Graduversary (yes, that is a real word and a real celebratory measure/time) of Denise and Joceline and I walking south* down the Lawn at dear ol’ U.Va. 

I only wish that you could see Denise’s Dora the Explorer balloon in this. It was so epic.

Only two years until Joce gets to do this all over again! (jealous!)

Life in Labelers with some of our dearest friends (and best mix-CD exchangers)**

And here we are – two years later! Look at us, we’re young adults! Just hopefully not young adults in the sense of Charlize Theron… which Denise and I had the [dis]privilege of viewing together last Saturday night.

I like to think that my ability to shoot bourbon is the only thing I have in common with Char’s character, Mavis (thank GOD I don’t share her name, right?)

*we are too cool and steeped in tradition to use normal words for “graduating”
**I know we have shared this photo repeatedly on LiL, but it just never gets old.

This is how we surf in the District

Clearly, it's what all the cool kids are doing...at 2am...on empty, abnormally bumpy metro cars.

Spirited

Working for a school that you didn’t go to presents its own set of challenges, often ones that you never saw coming.  Don’t get me wrong, every day I am grateful to be working at such a wonderful and prestigious university in the heart of our nation’s capital.  I learn new traditions and ideas for student life, academics, and alumni relations every single day.

if this doesn't make you feel spirited, I don't know what will.

But, sometimes I miss my own undergraduate university very, very…. VERY much.  Sometimes, I just need a moment to go to my own “happy place” and remember the dear old U-Va. Sometimes, I need just wave the freak-flag of my Wahoo/Cavalier spirit, and scream MYSCHOOLISBETTERANDIWILLALWAYSLOVEITMORE.

i kind of love U.Va a lot. and the Rotunda. and joce.

And today, my cube just wasn’t enough space for me to have that happy place. I kind of needed to share it with the internet as well.  So, to all my other dear Cavaliers out there – stay strong.  Take a moment to reflect on our wonderful University today. Remember the magic of the first fall days in the valley of central Virginia. And be grateful for every moment that you had there. Because all too soon, you’ll be left with a srat cup and a poster of the Rotunda in your work office, counting down the days until you return to Charlottesville for Homecoming (8!!!!!).

remnants of undergrad

In the infamous words of a fellow Cavalier, “Wahoowa, y’all… wahoowa!”

Graduate

Lori’s winging her way towards Spain for a week, but I stole some pics off her facebook to show you guys the proud grad.

Congratulations, Lori!  Enjoy the summer before you start as a real live English teacher.  I won’t wish you happy last-summer-vacation, though, since you’ll be getting that coveted break every year.

After four years at "the University", Lori makes peace with Mr. Jefferson.

[Pondering] Posgraduate

As students like Lori prepare to graduate, I thought I’d pass along a quote that I wish I’d grasped when I was in their shoes:

The Office Quote Board...aka my daily dose of perspective. Click to enlarge.

Embrace the Quarterlife Crisis. It might be mildly terrifying, but it’s highly educational.

“Do You Have Any Advice For Those of Use Just Starting Out?”

by Ron Koertge

Give up sitting dutifully at your desk. Leave
your house or apartment. Go out into the world.

It’s all right to carry a notebook but a cheap
one is best, with pages the color of weak tea
and on the front a kitten or a space ship.

Avoid any enclosed space where more than
three people are wearing turtlenecks. Beware
any snow-covered chalet with deer tracks
across the muffled tennis courts.

Not surprisingly, libraries are a good place to write.
And the perfect place in a library is near an aisle
where a child a year or two old is playing as his
mother browses the ranks of the dead.

Often he will pull books from the bottom shelf.
The title, the author’s name, the brooding photo
on the flap mean nothing. Red book on black, gray
book on brown, he builds a tower. And the higher
it gets, the wider he grins.

You who asked for advice, listen: When the tower
falls, be like that child. Laugh so loud everybody
in the world frowns and says, “Shhhh.”

Then start again.

Postgraduate Life (Or, musings on graduation 10 days before the event)

Well, I’m finished. All that’s left is to walk across the stage, receive my degree(s), curtsy, throw a middle finger or two, and walk towards my new life (just kidding about the curtsy). Yesterday, I took my photo for my teacher ID badge (can’t wait to get 10% off at Michael’s). I was also fingerprinted to double check that I’ve never committed a crime that would prevent me from being a baller role model for 150 9th or 10th graders.

Saturday, I leave for beach week. Never have I ever been to beach week of any form. This is because my parents love me and knew that I probably shouldn’t go to the beach as a 17 year old high school graduate. They didn’t want me to be arrested. Or fall down a flight of stairs (true story of a friend). The following four years, I decided that maybe they were right; Maybe I didn’t need to be a part of the mess.  This year, I’m embracing that I’m running out of time to be stupid. My only goal is to not be arrested or hurt in any way. Apart from that, it’s partay time. (Side note: One time I wrote “partay” on the chalkboard schedule in the classroom I student taught in. The students didn’t get it. They thought I legitimately couldn’t spell party. Therefore, at 22 years old, I am no longer cool.)

I graduate May 22nd, and then leave for the infamous brother/sister Spain trip on the 24th. After that, I have to learn to navigate moving home with my parents for the immediate future (aka my first year as a teacher).

This summer, I have no idea what I’m doing between June and August. Babysitting, obviously. Lounging at the pool, probably. Reading, definitely. Also, getting ready for my brand spankin’ new classroom and making things like “Welcome to Miss Lori’s [insert last name] class!”

My friend, Kate, wrote this awesome piece about what initial postgrad life is like.

Some of her wisdom (paraphrased):

1. You will move back home. (Check)

2. You will have a terrible job. (Sort of check)

3. You will get a pet. (Allergic and terrible with animals)

4. You will go to graduate school. (Check)

5. You will be jealous of your peers’ lives. (Er, if you’re not living at home, then yes. Check)

6. You will have so much fun. (I know this one will be true. Check)

Here are my personal goals for the next year that I live at home:

1. Learn to cook. I currently eat granola bars, take out, and sometimes a banana. ‘Nuff said.

2. Learn what words like “bills,” “interest,” and “loan payments” mean.

3. Date a bunch of idiots. (Oh, wait…already did that.)

4. Exercise more than once every three months.

5. Save money, and move out in June of 2012 (if not earlier).

Wish me luck?

Young D.C. Professional

We have too many nice things to say about her...they just won't fit in a tiny intro.

About the Author: Lauren (not to be confused with Lauren) is fresh from graduate school and ready to take over the world with her smarts and efficiency. Denise and Joceline were both friends with Lauren in college. If you’re thinking she looks familiar, it’s  because she’s made cameos on the blog here and here. Since ABC is attempting to turn Georgetown into the O.C., we thought it only right that a real D.C. twenty-something share her story.

I have one simple picture that summarizes what it means to be a “Young D.C. Professional.”  You may be thinking…one picture?  Oh, it must be something good like dollar bills or a company bar tab!  Actually, it’s lame but it’ll tickle your socks off.

Ladies and gentlemen, I give you….my desk:

There are a few things that jump out about this picture.  First off, no, I did not steal this desk from a forlorn coloring kindergartener and yes, those are reams of paper underneath the legs. Don’t let that nice screen fool you. That computer is terrible.  Wait, is that my Gmail up on my screen…?  Ahem, moving on. Also note my empty bowl of oatmeal that I ate alone while knocking my knees against – I mean, sitting at my desk.

Was this where I (quite literally) expected to be sitting a year ago?  Not so much.   Did I know this would be my seventh seat assignment and third office in six months?  That’d be a no.  Did I know then what it really meant to become a young professional in Washington D.C.?  Not quite.  But am I happy now? You bet those fuzzy socks still on your feet I am!

Last year as a graduate student, I found myself constantly bombarded with words like, “Learn this and you’ll change the world in your first job!” and “Look at all these social issues! With the skills you’ll get here, you can fix them all – TOMORROW!” I was so invigorated, bright-eyed and excited, but in late June of 2010 I officially entered the real world.  I began working for a firm specializing in IT and management consulting on a contract at a federal agency.  While I had a spunky, entertaining team, my work seemed largely superfluous and slow.  The project ended in September and I eagerly looked forward to a new one.  This time, I was going to hit the ground running!  Well, I thought I was, anyways.  Things here, too, have been lackluster.  I mean, just take a look at that desk!  My new project ends this month, so soon I’ll move on.  I have a number of good reasons to be excited. Then again, didn’t I have “good reasons” to be excited last time? Oh well! I am persistent in my optimism.

For me, that has been the most difficult ideological and environmental shift to comprehend as a “Young D.C. Professional.”  There is something in college -something less then naïveté but a shade higher than optimism- that you don’t stumble upon in this city.  It’s no longer commonplace to meet zealous mentors passionate about their day-to-day work.  You’re more likely to meet well-meaning individuals who may or may not enjoy what they do.  I miss the guidance, rigor and motivation.  I’m learning that it’s up to me to hone my skills (let me tell you, my Excel and Access skills have improved quite a bit) and to seek out projects whose managers will provide criticism and support.  For instance, I did have their full-fledged support to go to Europe for two weeks!

What do you think? Is this desk I found abroad too much for me?

Oh come on, I totally deserve this desk from Miramare Castle!

Well, since I haven’t acquired that one (yet), I’ll go back to my real desk.  That picture truly represents an environment I didn’t quite anticipate and work that doesn’t always apply those critical thinking skills that professors used to smack me upside the head about.

The other side of the story is exactly what isn’t in the picture.  One thing being a young professional offers that college doesn’t is a division between work and play.  Now weekends actually mean something!  When I leave work, I really can do whatever I feel like!  I can watch EVERY FOOTBALL GAME on Saturdays AND Sundays. My friends and I can go wine tasting, explore the National Arboretum, or tear it up for a night on the town. I can spend the day hanging out with my family!  When I take my eagerly awaited trips to Indiana to visit my boyfriend, I get to leave my sad desk and Excel files behind to enjoy every minute with him.  Life outside of work is fluid, abundant and joyful.  Of course stresses do come along with that fluidity.  What do you mean those were student loans? My rent is how much?  Wait, I have my own health insurance policy? The independence, however, is truly is exciting.  Just look at the face below!

Got my keys to my apartment – officially moving out!

Got my keys to my apartment – officially moving out!

As a young professional I’ve learned that things may not usually don’t go your way at work and if you want to have that bright-eyed and bushy-tailed outlook, you realize it needs to start with you. You can’t rely on the surrounding environment to do that for you.  While I didn’t elaborate too much on the incredible autonomy for fear of rambling in this post, I will say for now that I savor it every day (er, maybe not when bills are due).  So if you need me, you can find me here in Washington D.C. padding around in my warm fuzzy socks and optimistically searching for a desk that fits me just right.

23

Earlier this week, I turned 23.  I know, I know, a woman never admits her age, but I promise it relates to this post. (It’s actually everything to this post.)

Birthdays usually lead me to think about what I’m doing with my life, and I’m usually shocked when I find out what other people (okay, famous people) accomplished by the time they were my age.

It’s a lot like when Husband finds out that an NBA player is his age… or younger.

This week, without even trying to*, I discovered a few other people who are also 23.

1. Zee Avi**, new favorite artist.  (I’m sure you all were into her, like, wayy before it was cool to be into her.)

Zee Avi with guitar

2. Daniel Rasmussen.  I heard about him on the radio this morning.  The program was discussing his book American Uprising: The Untold Story of America’s Largest Slave Revolt, which discusses the 1811 slave uprising in New Orleans and how it was subsequently covered up.  I thought it was semi-interesting, and was half listening until the interviewer asked Rasmussen how old he was.  “I’m 23,” he responded.  Turns out the book was originally his thesis at Harvard.

3. Tim Tebow.  The first underclassman to receive the Heisman deserves a mention because my older brother lives in Gainesville and is a tad obsessed with Gator football.  I don’t really care either way, but he’s 23.

I could go on, but will not–considering that the Internet tells me that other people now aged 23 include Nicole ‘Snooki’ Polizzi, Bow Wow (since when did he drop the “Lil’?”), Aaron Carter, Hillary Duff, Jesse McCartney, and Ke$ha. That’s a lot of eye-roll worthy celebrity-ness concentrated in one age.

I’m just trying to say that there are a lot of people out there who have accomplished a lot by age 23.  And also that Joceline is apparently the only one of us who has time to become someone preteens drool over.

* Okay, maybe a little
** Upon further research, Zee Avi is not 23.  But her web site’s bio page says she is.  Boo.

[Unemployed] Postgraduate

This past weekend, I went with my boyfriend (Evan) to his company’s annual Office Holiday Party for my first foray into that exotic land, the Real World.  By opting for med school I chose to delay adulthood by four years plus residency.  Many of my friends went the employment route instead, seeking coveted positions at consulting/law/engineering/design firms (or are experiencing the intern version like Emily).  Having never worked an office job myself, my simplified image of working life is colored largely by the most mockumentative of mockumentaries, The Office itself.  And the working life of a fresh-out-of-college yuppie (are they even called that anymore)? A closed book to my non-gap-year-taking self. 

This is a year old, not taken at the party (they didn't allow cameras). But clearly we are very predictable, because if you subtract my necklace and add a bowtie to Evan, this is what we looked like.

What I can gather about Evan’s job remains mysterious at best; much inside joking about dropped data tables and powerpoints in which the headers are three pixels to the left of standard.  To be fair, he works at a small business consulting firm where, as a first-year hire, he already seems to know everyone on a first-name basis.  I’m pretty sure it’s not normal to take a working lunch so you can spend lunchtime playing foosball against your CEO.  But I did learn more about what the people my age are experiencing as members of the workforce.

The Real World is pretty adult.  But not as adult as I feared.
Maybe I’m romanticizing this, but there’s something so charming about having your own place in a new city.  And I don’t mean as a student.  You can start your routine with a coffee (adults only drink black) from the corner deli before trotting to work, briefcase in hand.  And on the way home, you can pick up fresh vegetables and a bottle of wine, and window shop with the possibility of purchase, because you have a salary!

 Wait…back it up, Joceline.  With that salary comes the need to think about health insurance, car insurance, myriad types of insurance and credit and payments and allocating sick leave.  Forget the built-in two weeks of vacation that I’m partaking in right now.  And while you’re at it, you have to worry about performance reviews at work too?  At the risk of sounding impossibly naïve or bratty, I’ve only taken baby steps toward growing up.  I thought college was supposed to be my time to learn to be on my own, but I’m only negligibly closer to self-sufficiency than I was when I was still a profligate undergrad.

Considering this, I was assuming that all of Evan’s “work friends” would  be ridiculously mature and have beautifully honed conversational skills.  And they did.  I’m so used to talking about medical school that it was a pleasure to chat with people who hadn’t spent the last three days in the library studying the same chapters I’d been poring over.  But at the same time, graduating and getting a job hadn’t sucked the life out of them–I didn’t hear one word about insurance.  Being in the real world, however daunting, seems pretty fun.

This is not to say that you don’t work hard—I’ve called Evan at 11:30 pm on my way home from the library, only to find that he’s still at work. Sleeping under his desk? He hasn’t gotten that far, but the hours can pile on into the night. On the other hand, though, when he’s deemed work to be over, he kicks back. I heard plenty about this mystical thing called “company happy hour”, where the office can hang out at swanky bars, free of grimy college kids, on the company’s dime.

On that note: the alcohol runneth freely. 

And I mean freely.  Sure, life in the city is more expensive (cover charges and $6 beers?  Thank you, Charlottesville.) but another thing that pulling a paycheck gives you is the freedom from feeling guilty if you spend a little on fun, rather than food.  I decided that, hey, I was all dressed up–it was time to graduate from the college standby of “blank and blank” (bourbon and coke, gin and ginger, rum and soda) and try an adult cocktail.  And I did feel rather grown-up sipping a Manhattan from a GLASS (no red plastic to be found).

It was good, but in all honesty, I’ll keep mixing with diet Coke.

Enlisting in the ranks of the Real World Army is a gradual process.
It doesn’t go, graduation, employment, BAM, you’re a grown-up!  It’s also so interesting to me that it all happens at different times and ages.  Take the four of us at Life in Labels, for example.  We’re all roughly the same age, but I’m still a student, Lauren’s gainfully employed and married, Denise is an Americorps volunteer and eventually law school bound, and Lori is transitioning from school to employment via student teaching.  It just goes to show you that even with very similar trajectories (youthful maturation in Northern Virginia and then the expected four years at an American university), we’re at different points on the path to the Holy City of Adulthood.

Happy Holidays!

[Mooching] Postgraduate.

So I had a completely different post lined up for this morning, but as I was putting the finishing touches on it I realized I was fulfilling another label to a T.  Right now I’m sitting on the couch in my pajamas, eating a bowl of my dad’s favorite cereal while 97.1 WASH-FM plays Christmas carols.  Yes, that’s right, Thanksgiving break has started for the medschoolers, and I’m back at home sponging off my parents.

The lifestyle is familiar, adopted by many college and grad students coming home on holiday.  I repeatedly fall back on the pattern of coming through the door with laundry in tow, sleeping for 12+ hours, failing to unpack for three days, and rifling through the refrigerator searching for tidbits of choice (I go for the fresh fruit every time).

Reasons why it’s good to be home:

1) The last time I did laundry was October 3rd, and underwear is my wardrobe’s limiting factor.

This is 100% true.  I have quite a bit of underwear, so I tend to put off doing laundry for a long time until the dwindling supply necessitates an action step.  You know—slowly dipping into the more hated pairs until you can’t delay laundry day any longer. And plus, each load is $3 to wash and dry at school, and I think I came home with about 4.5 loads. Ca-ching!

Almost five loads of laundry. Hamper to show scale.

2) This week will be the first in recent memory during which eggs do not serve as my primary source of protein.

Eggs are my meal of choice, since they’re cheap, filling, and there’s no prepping hassle–crack and cook!  No knives or cutting boards.  (I haven’t gotten around to worrying about my cholesterol yet.)  And, they can be made in the microwave, which means one fewer pan to wash.  Eggs microwaved in a ramekin with water = med student’s poached eggs.  Beaten with a fork + salt and pepper = med student’s omelette.  Med student’s omelette + cheese = date night.  (Just kidding.)  The one caveat: they can explode if you cook them too long.  Nevertheless, while microwaved eggs do their job, nothing beats a turkey-induced food coma and rolling out of bed the following morning in search of leftover stuffing.

3) Guilty pleasure reading.

I’ve left my old favorites at home for various reasons: space constraints, a lack of time for leisure reading, and sheer embarrassment that my new science-y friends would catch me reading Terry Pratchett’s Discworld novels (don’t judge, try them).  But here, there is time to spare and no one to judge.  Jane Austen, here I come.

4) Shopping from the pantry/refrigerator/closet—like Kroger, but free.

Elle Woods bemoaned having to switch from Charmin to generic, but she probably wasn’t fitting double-soft toilet paper into a budget that covered food and rent as well as hygienic luxuries.  I usually come back from home laden with the aforementioned fresh fruit, packages of frozen Trader Joe’s dumplings, and, because my mom knows I’m anemic, a couple of frozen steaks (red meat = great source of iron).  Not to mention upgraded versions of shampoo/conditioner, extra razors, and of course, TP—basically, fun items that I usually don’t indulge in.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m not vulturing my parents out of house and home, but it’s definitely nice to scavenge a bag of roasted almonds from the pantry once in awhile. (Also, ICE CREAM.  I don’t buy it but I’ll sure eat it when I’m home.)

5) Home is where the heart is.

While I’m still astounded that November has come and gone so quickly, the approach of the holiday season is definitely reminding me of all the reasons to be with my family.  It’s so nice getting the five of us together to talk about my dad’s latest advancement in hunting (his new hobby), or give each family member the obligatory roast as we dig up embarrassing childhood memories and painfully accurate impressions.  (We perform best for an audience—trust me…my sister and I have brought enough boyfriends and friends home to figure that one out.)  I’ve always loved Thanksgiving, since it’s basically a big excuse to eat and hang out, wrapped in the guise of a national holiday.  And when you’re eating delicious food with family, it’s just natural to be thankful.

Did I miss one of your reasons for coming home on break?  All in all, this week will be a much-needed deep breath before I dive back into exams in December.   Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!  And if you’re a moocher for the week, like me, cheers—and think of home the next time you use another precious three squares of Charmin.

The turkey that a friend and I prepared for a potluck we had last Friday, trussed and ready for roasting. Happy Thanksgiving!